Was ok with PORN now Im not.?

Good Lord woman, you really don't know a thing about men. They are VISUAL creatures; they like to look and watch. Why do you think there are Playboy and Hustler, XXX rated movies, and tons of internet porn and sexual chat rooms? They like to see a good looking naked woman. They don't expect to call Ginger Lee or whoever and make a date, they just look and as he said, imagine himself doing the same stuff, probably with you. That's what makes men and women so different; they like to LOOK and are VISUAL; women are more emotional and focused on the man they love and are with. They don't necessarily need porn although lots of women look at it. If a guy is looking at porn occasionally, I can understand that, but if is taking the place of normal sex with you or he is doing it compulsively (at work, for hours on end, spending money on it, etc) then you are dealing with addiction to porn and you should see a marriage counselor about it. Good luck and I hope it all works out.